Mindy, 24 from Minnesota writes…

The guy I am dating isn’t circumcised and it is really turning me off when we do it. Lately I don’t even want to because each time I see it I get disgusted. What can I do about this problem of his? Can he get it taken off or is it too late?

Dr Thatslife has this to say….

Wrong Mindy, it’s YOUR problem, not his. If your cunt had piss flaps the size of Dumbo ears, would you want him recoiling in disgust at the sight of them, or appreciating that it’s you and who you are? Your strong reaction to the inch or so of skin that is SUPPOSED TO BE THERE indicates you have an Econovan full of baggage and immaturity issues.

Suggesting he should get snipped to accommodate those stunning insecurities of yours is an absurd notion, and in no way considers what such a procedure would put your partner through. Undergoing a circumcision when newly born is one thing, but as an adult it’s a totally different ballgame.

You may not realize this, but outside the tribal fairytale land of religion, it is very common for men not to be circumcised, and that the rate of circumcision over the decades has dropped considerably to now modern historic lows. While this may be your first encounter with someone who hasn’t been circumcised, you really need to adjust your thinking to the fact that it probably won’t be your last.

Instead of seeing it as something intolerable, you need to be in the frame of mind that it’s natural and completely normal. Take some time to mentally re-evaluate your initial impression of his junk, which may have been of shock. That shock then festered into a downward spiral that has led to where you are now - a mess. Let your mind take some time to digest the situation again and the fact that his uncircumcised tool doesn’t pose a threat to you. It really is a miniscule detail that you can either ignore, or if you let yourself, turn into an overblown crisis.

Heck, with your legs up in the air and him pounding that little box of yours into oblivion, it really doesn’t make an ounce of a difference (quite literally) if he is or isn’t circumcised. He’s going to blast the same amount of spunk all over your innards in either case. So DON’T put him on a guilt trip over this, instead put some much needed time and effort into internally resolving this yourself.

That’s life!