They keep showing me their equipment! Posted January 24th, 2008 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Khris, 13 from California writes…

“Ok I have this problem with guys and girls always wanting to show me their stuff. I know its crazy and its really annoying. Anyway, I have this problem that if someone talks sexually about jacking off or something I get nervous. I’m only 13, I don’t know what’s up! My friend (or at least she used to be) would always go if you show me your tits ill show you mine and I am like noooooo way! But she shows me anyway and I’m like nooooo. Then the guys like to show me their cocks and I’m like leave me alone. I totally don’t think I’m attractive. My tits are not really big (34C) and I need to know what I should do because “stop” just isn’t working for me!”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Sounds like you have some pretty seriously perverted “friends” there Khris. At your age, this is not something they should be doing. Even if you were 23, its just not the kind of thing normal people go around doing. I have no idea who raised these little treasures, but you should drop all of them pronto. Not only should they not be showing you their privates, but they should be listening to you when you say NO!

Makes me wonder where the fuck this planet is going when 13 year old girls want to check each other out. Do you really want girlfriends that are dieing to check out your rack? Boys that are wiping their chops out to show you are only going to get you into trouble in one way or another, now or later on.

Of course you may feel a bit nervous on the topic of sex, your only 13, just barely a teenager. I also don’t want to hear this shit about you being ugly. Did you know that your attractiveness has more to do with how you FEEL about yourself then your actual body? Even someone that could be considered “beautiful” will still look ugly if she herself is not happy with how she looks. Also, trust me, I wouldn’t worry about your jug size.

Go get some real friends Khris, the one’s you have right now aren’t going to do you any good, and that’s life!