Should I trust her this time around? Posted December 18th, 2007 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Rick, 16 from Gwent, Wales writes…

“For 5 months I was seeing the most beautiful girl that I have ever met, she was funny, and had a spirit like nothing else. I found out that for 4 out of the five months that I was with her she had another boyfriend in England, and another up country from where I was. Initially I was angry, but I was in love with her. A month later we have got back together, but I cant stop wondering if she will do it again. I love her and she tells me that she loves me, but can I trust her, has she learnt her lesson? During the time we were apart she was so unhappy, now she seams a lot happier in general. Am I doing the right thing being back with her?”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

If you need to ask me a question like that, your love for her is blinding you! I want to ask YOU a question. If she was cheating on you with not one, but TWO other guys the first time around, what the FUCK would possibly make you think that has changed this time? Even if she has learned her “lesson” like you think… How long is that really going to last before she’s looking for a new cock or two on the side? Keep in mind that you FOUND OUT about her little side deals, imagine if you hadn’t? You would still be merrily chugging along with her while she gets her jollies with the guy in England. What if she does it to you again, but she’s a bit more smart in hiding it? Imagine the other stuff she probably hasn’t told you about! If she lies about who she is seeing, she probably lies about other things as well to you. Guess that’s the chance your taking… You know what? I bet she wasn’t unhappy. Why would she be? She’s got her other two cocks ..errr.. guys to keep her happy!

I would say she isn’t worth it, unless she comes up with some pretty amazing reasons why you should trust her again Rick.

That’s unfortunately life…