He never calls me and it’s driving me nuts! Posted February 6th, 2008 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Janet, 23 from Canada writes…

“Well, its just about impossible to get my boyfriend to call me! I have tried over and over again to page him today for example, but not a word. Its been going on for about 2 weeks. Before this, although he wasn’t perfect, at least he tried to make the effort. What should I do Dr Thatslife?”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Hmmmm… Sounds like you have a guy that just doesn’t give a shit. Something’s going on in his life right now that obviously doesn’t include you. Check the trend, one moment he’s a typical boyfriend, the next he’s mister solitude. From the sounds of things you probably chewed him out each time he finally did call you each time. Which he will use as a tool to further distance you (”Ohh, she keeps fucking calling me!!!!”) What you should do is haul his ass into your “private office” and ask him what the fuck is going on. I mean really, what the heck’s the point in keeping this guy around if you never talk to him, right? If he gives you some bullshit about, “Oh I’ve been busy”, remind him a 30 second call to say he loves you can be fit into any schedule. If he doesn’t sound like he’s going to change…dump the jerk off.

And that, Janet, is life!