Will this mark near my happy place gross him out? Posted October 30th, 2007 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Erin, 17 from Ontario, Canada writes…

“I’m a virgin. I’m not saying I’m quite the innocent one when it comes to fooling around with guys, I just have morals about losing my virginity. I guess you can say that I’m just waiting for the right one to come. Anyways, I think the right one has finally come along… And I really don’t want to wait with this one. We’ve become really serious, been through sooo much together, and I know that we’ll be together for a very long time. My problem is… I’m really insecure about this beauty mark/mole/whatever u wanna call it I have right by my crotch. I don’t know if he’d feel it or anything IF I sleep with him, but like, if I do…would it gross him out?”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Are you kidding? The last thing he’s going to be thinking about is some stupid little mark near your happy place. Trust me, you two will probably bonk each other like rabbits without him even noticing its there. He will be too busy looking at and feeling other things. Even if he does notice it, I highly doubt it would phase him for even for half a second. If I were you, I wouldn’t even begin to worry about it.

Did you also know that guys can find this sort of thing attractive? Yup, that’s right! There is something neat about finding these secret things on her no one else knows. They are what make her, her! I shit you not! Think about it, if he had something similar around his happy place would you really give a crap?

You’ve probably blown the whole thing out of proportion in your mind thinking he’s going to be huddled over you with a magnifying glass and saying “Hmmm, I dunno about this!?”. Its easy to sit there dwelling over what he’s going to think over and over again. But just take a step back and realize, its just a completely insignificant mark he won’t care about. It will all be JUST FINE!

That’s Life!