We bonk 3 to 4 times a day, is this too much? Posted October 18th, 2007 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Jonathan, 16 from Florida writes…

“I met this girl through a friend on the phone… She moved to PA and that’s far away. She is a really straight girl, doesn’t drink, doesn’t party, and is great. Well, she is 19 which is 3 years older than me and that doesn’t bother my parents, her parents, her, or me. Well we fell madly in love and I went to see her. I loved every second with her so I saw her again. The second time I saw her we started having sex which is really weird cause neither of us were likely to have sex so early and I know its because we love each other.

I was wondering, we have sex like 2-4 times a day and I was wondering if that was too much? But you must consider that we still talk and go out and have fun also. We only see each other for about 4-5 days every month and I know we both love each other. So that’s not too much is it?”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Sounds like you’re catching up on lost bonk time each visit. Ask yourself this… Why could it possibly be too much? You like her, the sex is great, I’d say straddle up and go buck wild whenever it feels right for the both of you. Just keep in mind in a situation like this where you only have a hand full of days to play with, you should make sure they are balanced. If its ONLY sex, then you two are pretty well fuck friends. But since you two are really into each other, doing other things, and keep in good contact when your not together, what your doing as far as I’m concerned is PERFECTLY fine. Think about it, you have all this time in between visits building up just thinking about the next time you get to jump her, and when you two finally hook up, BAMN! Welcome to the jungle! Jon, everything is just fine in the quantity department.

That’s Life!