I have a girlfriend but it doesn’t bother her! Posted January 12th, 2008 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Ezra, 25 from New York City writes…

“Well here it goes, I’ve was approached by this very good looking girl recently and one of the first things she let me know was that she knew I had a girlfriend and that it doesn’t bother her in the least she has seen me around the neighbourhood and finds me extremely attractive. Well eventually we got together and even though I didn’t get to stroke her, I could tell that she is a lot more excited in the sack then my significant other. I sure that if we get together again we will fuck each others brains out help me quick I need advice pronto! Should I have a night or two of awesome meaningless sex knowing I can get away with it, or should I take this as a sign that I’m not very interested in a relationship anymore? HELP”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Your last line said it all Ezra, sounds like you want to truly fuck the brains out of this girl, and being in a relationship just doesn’t mix with that. Also keep in mind that if you are going to bang her, you may become attached to her. Before you get in that situation, look at her as she is… Someone who doesn’t care that you’re committed to someone else. You know what that means? She won’t care if she’s committed when going out with you! That’s right, if she doesn’t respect other peoples relationships and feelings, why would she with hers?

I think I would have saw more mention of your current girlfriend and talking about her qualities if she was more important to you. The only mention here is that she exists, does that tell you something? Sounds like your current relationship maybe isn’t for you at the moment, but is a couple bonk sessions with this other chick
really the right way to go? You need to stand back and look very carefully before answering that.

Yup, that’s life!