Girl at work is hot, but I have a girlfriend Posted August 1st, 2007 in Dr Thatslife Advice

 Ezra, 25 from New York City writes…

“Well I have a very satisfying relationship with my current girlfriend of 5 years and have been faithful for over 4 years, now here’s the problem I have this wonderful opportunity with this great looking women that works in the same building that I do, she knows I’m in a relationship and is fully understanding my situation should I fuck her brains out in the name of mankind or what?”

 Dr Thatslife has this to say…

Common problem you got there Ezra. What guy hasn’t had similar thoughts of porking some hot booty chick at work? Seriously though, look at the situation, you are in a relationship that is long term, you two are having a great time, why fuck it up? If she got some dick action with a guy that she works with, you would be pretty pissed wouldn’t you? Well! Its a two way street buddy.

If you want to go around getting busy with people at work, maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship, or at least not a long term one like your current one. When a relationship goes on for that long its all about trust, commitment to each other and being there for each other. You are pretty well pissing all of those elements into the river if you get it on with this woman at work.

If you get busy with her once, it will happen again, and again and before you know it, the whole thing is a big ugly mess. Don’t think for a second you won’t get caught, it will slip eventually man. My suggestion to you is either, enjoy the time you have with her at work, or say game over to your current relationship and let the party begin.

That’s life man…